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Leah's avatar

Thank you for writing this.

A coworker of mine ended up carrying a child, for her and her female partner, through IVF. Most people wildly celebrated it. The whole discussion preceding and surrounding it was sadly crass and, yes, eugenic. Due to the nature of the relationship and the workplace, I avoided the conversations and just tried to ask how she was feeling, if she needed more water, or a chance to put up her feet. I was pregnant at the same time, and felt conflicted about how to handle the whole thing. I wanted to show care for the pregnant woman in front of me, but not celebrate the sad situation. We had a few conversations about faith - my husband is a pastor - and I assume my growing family probably stood as its own confession. She never talked much with me about her personal life, but I prayed for her often.

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Emily Samson's avatar

If anyone hasn't seen GATTACA, I highly recommend it. It's almost prophetic in how the fertility business has evolved into what it is today. These are eerie days, Our Lady of Guadalupe, patroness of the unborn, pray for us!

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